Friday, August 6, 2010

which one is better?


i read this from somewhere.
copied and read it again.
somehow it makes sense.


there is a difference between goodbye and letting go
GOODBYE is
I'll see you again when I'm ready to hold your hand and you're ready to hold mine
LETTING GO is
I'll miss your hand but I realized it's not mine to hold and will never hold it again.

i asked myself:
in what situations goodbye is the option?
in what circumstances letting go is the solution?

for a
confuse mind
broken heart
withered spirit
rejected soul

will there ever be a better option between goodbye and letting go
when hope is an enemy and the closest ally?

5 comments:

penelope strohem said...

hehehe, just what I need, a name for the things I plan to do...=) thanks ate!

Ako Si Nikki said...

goodbye and letting go..
letting go and moving on..
yes,
all three are actually not the same when we talk about confused minds, broken hearts, withered spirits, and rejected souls..

better option?
right choice?

meron nga ba nun pag dating sa mga nabanggit na kalagayan?

i think there is,
but only through the help of time..

saying goodbye,
choosing to let go,
deciding to move on,

all these should be friends with time..

because it is only through time that

mind will start to clear
heart will start to heal
spirit will start to grow
soul will start to believe

and when we speak of hope

true,
its both an enemy and the closest ally,

still,

it has a big role to play
in making the options
to give way to the solutions

question is,

is the mind open?
is the heart brave enough?
is the spirit willing?
is the soul ready?

again,

only through time..

shexplanation said...

ang hirap naman...

ganyan ba talaga kakomplikado ang pagpapaalam at pagpapalaya?

ganito ba kahirap ang sitwasyon kapag nagmamahal ka?

nagmamahal ka lang naman ah.

heartbeats* said...

@urban miss: sige lang.. minsan talaga mahalaga na pangalanan pero minsan okey kahit anonymous lang basta irecognize ang stirrings at 'wag ideny... :-)
@yellow cab: very profound and truly moving reflection.. indeed a heart who had been there is the one who can put together the labels and feel the waves within... :-)
@My loves: love can be the most simple and the most complex thing in the world. :-)

Ako Si Nikki said...

@heartbeats..

bigsigh.. (nearly to tears).. i really miss the conversations..

dito, parang wala akong kaibigan at all... :(